How Porn is destroying Relationship ?

Sex !!! We all love it right ???? We all want to do it !!!!
And, the closest thing that makes people to feel the pleasure of it is erotic videos or these days “Porn”.

“Porn” is something that is not new, it is around since past Century. What made it more popular? Is the Stark globalization of “Internet”. It just made it so easily accessible that everyone around the world are able to access it. But, something isn’t right about these viral trend.

Here are some cases to justify the statement :

  1. In April 2016, Utah lawmakers declared “Porn” as public health crisis.this decision itself shows the effect that it is making on our society.
  2. In 2014 , there was a research study that was carried out to see the effects’ porn does on brain and it’s functioning. (https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/1874574?= )Which suggested that watching such videos alters the normal functioning of brain and thinking process.
  3. As per research article on (https://www.npr.org/2017/10/09/556606108/research-explores-the-effect-pornography-has-on-long-term-relationships) it has been found that, Man or woman watching porn are more likely to get divorce when compared to normal couple.
  4. There have been cases reported around the world where couples are seeking divorce because of their porn addiction and unwanted desires.
    From my personal experiences , I have seen couples breaking up just because of their partners addiction to habit of watching such videos.

What it does?

  • Creates a false psychology of sexual methodology
  • Reduces desire for physical contact
  • Makes you want something from your partner that he or she may not like
  • Making illusion that pain is pleasure
  • Damages emotional relationship
  • Creates a dirt in human mind that makes opposite sex look like an object.
  • At last, the urge to watch it again and again…!!(Most dangerous)

This list can go on and on, there is no end to it.but, it’s up to us as partners , parents to take the right decision and provide the right guidance.